Feb. 17, 2025
EP: 0113 - Female Led Relationships - The Trials and Triumphs of Living in Male Chastity
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In this episode, I talk about the complexities of male chastity, from choosing the right device to navigating daily challenges. I can speak from personal experience when I offer tips on device sizing, maintenance, and travel considerations, ensuring comfort and safety for those exploring this lifestyle. I also talk aboiut my subbie and his nighttime erections, TSA travel tips, and an exploration of various chastity devices.
This episode is essential for anyone curious about male chastity, offering a candid look into the realities and nuances of this lifestyle. Listeners will benefit from practical advice on device selection and maintenance, as well as open discussions on often overlooked topics like hygiene and emergency preparedness.
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1. What are the best tips for selecting and maintaining male chastity devices?
2. How can you travel through airport security with a chastity device?
3. What are the common challenges faced in a male chastity lifestyle?
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Transcript
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Fucking chipped a nail.
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What kind of bullshit is that?
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This podcast is intended for mature audiences only If you're not 18 years of age or older.
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There are thousands of other podcasts you can listen to and you can come back and visit us when you are 18.
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This podcast is meant solely for entertainment.
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We are not licensed doctors, lawyers or therapists.
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We simply have a fascination with the lifestyle and I'd love to share it with you and get your thoughts and opinions.
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Episode 13.
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So glad you guys are all here.
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Let's kick this off with some housekeeping issues.
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Housekeeping New discovery.
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This week I got introduced to Gary Vee and I'm going to massacre his name, but I think it's Gary Vaynerchuk.
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Listening and watching his talks has been fucking empowering.
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He strongly suggests that content creators ignore the negative in their comments and in their lives.
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Strongly suggest that content creators ignore the negative in their comments and in their lives.
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That makes me even more confident to post videos.
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If you want a personally recorded audio with my seductive tone, hit me up.
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I'll hook you up A few episodes back.
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We discussed facing your fears.
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I believe it was the episode when it comes to female-led relationships, or FLR.
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Today we are going to discuss what could go wrong with male chastity.
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Thought it was convenient, since it's episode 13 and it was Friday the 13th.
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So hey, I want to start off by saying, first and foremost, you should always do your own research on things and be very careful what you take as facts.
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You should be fact-checking as much as you can, especially when it comes to male chastity, and here's why there are not many men out there who are legitimately practicing male chastity.
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There is not nearly enough, in my opinion.
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However, the ones that are out there actively participating in male chastity are generally not blogging about it, which is sad.
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Come on, guys, let's get some blogs going.
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Let's talk about what it's like to be locked.
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So just be careful on what you're reading and make sure it's I don't know, and make sure it's I don't know legit.
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I mean, you don't want to take advice from somebody who has no fucking idea what the fuck they're doing.
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Or maybe you do, and if that's it, that's your prerogative.
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More power to you.
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You just want to be careful.
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I mean, after all, you're kind of putting your manhood in a cage, which is fucking hot.
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Also, when exploring chastity, take your time.
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Start out slow, start with a few days and work your way up if long term is what you're looking for.
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Everybody has their own dynamic with chastity.
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You could do it just during the week, during the day, while you're at work, or you could do it only on the weekends.
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Find out what works best for you and run with it, and don't take shit from anybody if they tell you you're not doing it right.
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Everybody has their own dynamic.
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You do what works best for your relationship, and I know people probably are getting sick of hearing me say that.
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But listen, this is your life, it's your penis, it's your relationship, and I know people probably are getting sick of hearing me say that.
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But listen, this is your life, it's your penis, it's your relationship.
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Do what works best for you and fuck everyone else Not literally, of course, because your penis is in a cage.
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The first thing I'm going to address is the first thing that we noticed when I locked my subbie up.
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So the first thing that came up, too, when I did my own research on the internet, in addition to how we kind of live our life or live our relationship, was your nighttime erections.
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Most men experience a boner.
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Because I think the word boner is fun, we're going to use that instead of erection.
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So most men get a boner two to three times a night, generally during REM sleep or REM sleep, whatever you want to call it.
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So obviously, if you're in a cage, that shit's probably going to wake you up because it fucking hurts, because there's nowhere for your dick to grow.
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It can be painful to grow.
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It can be painful.
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However, my subbie personally has noticed that it goes away the longer he's locked up, or maybe he sleeps through them, but he has not noticed the erections or boners in the middle of the night.
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Now, with that being said, what was it?
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Last week he was out of his cage for probably three, maybe five nights total, and he the first couple nights I don't think he experienced anything, but after that he started getting them again and then he put the cage back on and the first two nights of having the cage on he woke up in pain because he had an erection.
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Now my thoughts on this.
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The penis knows it's a slow learner sometimes, but it knows when that fucker is locked on and it ain't growing because it don't like it or, scientifically, it's your brain saying hey, listen, fucker, don't get hard, you don't have anywhere to go.
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However, seems to have short term memory.
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Because if you take the cage off for a few days he's like oh hey, I'm free, I'm going to get a boner, this is fantastic, I love it.
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And then the cage comes back on, doesn't register right away.
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So you get a couple nights of pain In the beginning when you first start trying out chastity if you choose to sleep with the cage on at night.
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Just know the first two to three nights could be painful.
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If you're anything like my subbie and you could end up with your night boners and it's going to hurt a little bit, not going to kill you, you'll be all right.
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But I'm not a doctor so you should do your own research.
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But it does get better.
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There is a light at the end of the tunnel.
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Another thing you could run into when just starting out with chastity or something that could go wrong is trying to find the right cage.
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That could go wrong is trying to find the right cage.
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This can be kind of a pain in the ass because if you don't have the right size ring around your balls you can get pinching or you could lose a ball or there's a.
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You know, you could be uncomfortable, like not the norm uncomfortable that comes with chastity, which my subbie says it's not uncomfortable at all.
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He prefers to have the cage on than off.
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But you want to make sure you get the right size, because losing a ball can be real painful and when I say losing a ball, I mean one slides out of the ring that is around your balls.
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Just in case you didn't know If you're taking this whole situation seriously, because I know maybe for some it's kind of a game hey, let's try chastity, it'll be real fun.
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And then you know it's not something that you're taking seriously, which is fine.
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If you don't take it seriously and you want to give it a try and you hate it, be done with it.
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Nobody's forcing you, but you should definitely take measurements.
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Now I asked my subbie about how he took measurements.
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This is what I was told Measure the circumference at the base, or the point where your junk or dick connects to your body.
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That's the measurement for the ring.
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So I don't and I just ordered him a couple today and I don't remember what he said the measurement was for his ring going around.
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But you want to make sure you get a ring that fits good.
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And then obviously you want to measure your penis limp to determine what size cage you need.
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Because here the thing If you order one that's too big and it's heavy, it's going to fall off unless your balls hold it on, I mean unless.
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So if the cage itself is too big, I personally don't find it all that attractive when there's all the empty space in the cage.
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I'd rather see his little penis filling it up.
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That's what's hot to me Again.
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See his little penis filling it up.
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That's what's hot to me, again.
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Your own preference.
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If you don't mind that, go for it.
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But I think it's going to be a more comfortable fit if everything is where it's supposed to be and there's not a lot of extra space Plus.
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Then you're not carrying around that extra weight.
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It's a trial and error thing, for sure.
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We I think we went through three, I don't remember.
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I think we went through a few before we actually found the one that I really like, and I just ordered a couple more, which I'll talk about in just a little bit that I'm real excited for.
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When we initially ordered our first cage, it had different size spacers with it for the balls.
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So if you can find something that you're ordering online that comes with the three different size rings.
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Chances are one of them is going to fit.
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Now, if you have abnormally large balls or I shouldn't say abnormally, because who determines what a normal ball size is really?
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If you have bigger balls than most, you may struggle to find something that fits around your sack.
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It's just the nature of the beast.
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You may have to have something custom made, which could be expensive.
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Now if you're serious about this and the money doesn't matter, go for it.
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It'll be worth every penny.
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In my opinion, average size men with average size or you know, I don't know do men like talk about their ball size?
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Probably not, and not if they do, they probably don't talk about it honestly.
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Maybe they do, I don't know.
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If you have average size balls, it shouldn't be a problem.
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Like my husband has what I consider to be probably average size balls Small, weenie, average size balls.
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So I want to say the large ring, medium, medium or large ring worked out well for him.
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The first one we ordered had all three, so he picked.
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He tried a couple different.
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You don't want to cut off circulation to your balls unless you are intentionally trying to castrate yourself, which is not safe.
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Oh, side note, if your balls turn purple, it's too fucking tight.
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If it's too loose, a ball's gonna slip out and it's more than likely going to be painful and pretty much renders the cage useless.
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Even with a cage that does fit, sometimes you lose a ball.
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It's quite painful and when it happens to my subbie, if I'm not with him, he'll generally text me.
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I'll get a good giggle out of it On the subject of a ball slipping out.
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On the subject of a ball slipping out.
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On the subject of a ball slipping out, once one is gone, generally the other one tries to follow suit, which could potentially lead to the cage falling off.
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What brings me to that is I'm going to refer to a story from one of my favorite podcasters, michael C of Keys and Anklets, and a story that I heard about a man who was in a meeting and his cage fell off and slipped down his pants and fell to the floor.
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Now, if you have a silicone cage, that maybe won't make much noise.
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If you have a metal cage, it's probably going to be noisy and draw attention because it'll probably be a pretty loud clunk when it gets to the floor.
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Keep in mind this could happen anywhere.
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For instance, it could happen getting in and out of a vehicle.
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I mean, if a ball gets loose and the cage is loose, you could be walking down the street and it could fall down your leg.
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I would assume you're going to notice that a ball came out because, again, it's painful.
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Probably a good time to hit the bathroom, if you can, and remedy the situation if at all possible to avoid that happening.
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It would be rather uncomfortable if my husband was getting into our vehicle and our children were in the car and it slipped down his leg.
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However, we have yet to experience something like that.
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I'm hoping that doesn't happen because it might be real hard to explain to the kiddos.
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My subbie has a very labor-intensive job.
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He's bending, squatting, he's very active, hauling things in, hauling things out, climbing in and out of his truck, doing all of that and very rarely does he have many issues.
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And very rarely does he have many issues.
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Even on the times where he has lost a ball, he's generally able to keep things in place until he gets home to fix it.
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So I think it's all going to depend on how the cage fits each individual person.
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Everybody is built differently.
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So I think it's really going to depend on the type of cage you have, how it fits, how comfortable it is for you, things like that, I mean you could lose a ball and be fine.
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Or you could lose a ball and it could fall off and fall down your pant leg.
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Now again, if you're wearing tighter pants and there isn't room for it to fall down your pant leg, you might be fine.
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Or, for instance, my subbie wears real form-fitting boxer brief underwear.
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So even if something was to happen, the underwear are probably strong enough to hold it in place for the most part.
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So that's an extra precaution you could take as well If you want to wear tight-fitting boxer briefs, if you want to wear tighty-whities, whatever you want to wear I do know that for work purposes I'm wearing boxers is a big fat fuck.
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No, there's no support whatsoever when you're wearing a metal cage and you have boxers on.
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I think temperature is also a factor in balls slipping out of rings.
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I mean, as I mentioned, I'm in Minnesota and it's getting fucking cold here and things shrink when it gets cold Rightfully so it's fucking cold.
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That could be a contributing factor as well, and something you may want to consider when wearing a cock cage in the winter If you live in a Midwestern state or somewhere where it gets cold, like my subbie works outside sometimes, or he is outside, wow, okay.
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So story time real quick.
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Sometimes he works on new construction so there is no as plumbing, so sometimes in the winter he has to use a porta potty.
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Sometimes in the winter he has to use a porta potty.
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Sometimes temperatures in Minnesota get in the negative by like I don't know, 15, 20, sometimes much lower, and you have metal in that temperature and you have to take your pants off to sit down and pee.
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It's a hair bit chilly.
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I enjoy it.
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I don't think he does so much, but he's a good boy and keeps wearing it.
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Obviously, if he was working outside, I would probably say listen, we're not wearing the metal cage because I may not use it much, but I value your wiener.
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That would take frostbite to a whole new level.
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Imagine having to go to the doctor for that.
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My next topic of what could go wrong.
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I fucking hate to even bring this up again because it has been a hot topic on TikTok.
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As we've discussed on previous podcasts, wearing a cock cage when traveling regularly may not be the smartest idea.
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But I'm going to say this for the hundredth time After my personal experience with TSA and a cock cage.
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I personally would not recommend wearing one through TSA.
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However, you're all grown-ass adults.
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Do what you think is right.
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If you're going to wear one, then that's totally fine.
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That's your choice.
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I stand behind you.
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Props to you.
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I just choose not to go through that.
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Again.
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If you are going to wear one, I would one recommend that you have a little extra time in case they do pull you off to the side and want to personally inspect you, because it happens, as we all know from past experiences.
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Two check out TSA's guidelines.
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I went right on my Twitter, hit up TSA, talked about it in a podcast before you can tell them immediately listen, I have a male chastity device on.
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You can have a card that says I have a male chastity device on.
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If you even want to put the model of the male chastity device on, you can have a card that says I have a male chastity device on, if you even want to put the model of the male chastity device on there, just so they're aware what it is.
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But be prepared, whether they know what it is or not, they may still choose to search you in a separate room.
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They may not.
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I would look over TSA guidelines carefully, just to be sure you're prepared and make sure that you have enough time in case they do decide to pull you off to the side and search you.
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They may not, every airport is different.
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You just want to be prepared and well-educated.
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If traveling is something you do all the time and you don't want to take it off, perfect Next time we travel.
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If we ever get on a plane, I will probably take it off, put it in my carry-on, put it in my checked luggage, whatever the case may be, and he can put it back on when we get there because I choose not to go through that again.
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Put it back on when we get there because I choose not to go through that again.
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At least at this time.
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Things can change.
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Probably not, though.
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The biggest backlash I got when I posted a video of me reading about the TSA incident on my TikTok was about how we were subjecting other people to our kink and TSA didn't consent and blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
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This is my opinion.
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I personally probably will not have my husband wear one again if we fly anywhere, but if you want to go for it, just do your own research and be prepared for a search and don't fucking let anybody make you feel guilty about it.
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I still get a little touchy about this.
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The whole consent thing pisses me off, but whatever, I obviously believe consent is very important.
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However, tsa has guidelines about cock cages, so obviously their agents are somewhat trained on it or go through it when they take the job and know that it's a possibility.
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So there is that and I'm probably done with that subject for now or for fucking good.
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So the final topic of things that could go wrong is a worry that I have Not horrible, but it has crossed my mind.
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So my subbie drives a lot for work.
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He also has a very labor-intensive job.
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It's not like a high-risk job.
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He's not doing power lines or anything, but there's always the possibility that something could go wrong In our dynamic.
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I wear the key around my neck and he has no access to it if we are not together.
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That being said, with his profession, he does have tools in the back of his truck.
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I believe he has a bolt cutter back there.
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He does have a grinder.
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However, I wouldn't recommend putting a grinder that close to your penis.
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Bolt cutters probably work better.
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The lock is not super industrial on his cage specifically, it probably would not be hard to snap it off.
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But in the event of an emergency say you were in a car accident or have health issues and wind up in an ambulance or an emergency room always be prepared to tell the staff what you're wearing, especially if it's metal.
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I have not done my own research on this, but to me it seems like if you were having heart issues or something happened and you they had to use the paddles, or you're having an MRI, anything like that, I would think you would want them to know that you're wearing metal on your penis.
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So that's one of my biggest holy fucks.
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This could go wrong.
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Is my subbie being on location working and something goes wrong and he has to dig tools out to get it off, or ending up in an emergency room or in an ambulance or something like that.
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I haven't really looked into what you could do to know.
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I mean, you don't want to wear a bracelet on your wrist that says I'm wearing a cock cage, but just be prepared to have to explain to an emergency professional, just in case you never know.
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Life's unpredictable if you're going to wear a chastity device long-term or if it's something you're going to wear every day, like in our instance.
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He wears it all the time.
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Obviously, keeping it clean is very important because you pee on it and it can get very stinky and dirty and cause some real problems.
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But before I move into that, I just want to clarify again that the things I have discussed up until this point in the podcast and in the podcast in this episode and in podcasts before, in general I am not an expert.
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If you know anything about me or if you have listened to previous podcasts, I'm new.
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I'm navigating my way through all this with limited knowledge on how it all works.
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I'm doing my own research.
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I'm just kind of sharing with you how things have gone for us, things that have happened that I could hopefully spare you from having to go through, if it's something that would be utterly embarrassing or if it's something that can help you not put yourself through a situation, if you can avoid it or save you from unnecessary pain or, if you like, pain right on.
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These are just my experiences, my opinions.
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Everybody should do their own research and come to their own conclusions, especially when it comes to male chastity, and always remember it's your body, it's your relationship.
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You should have a discussion with who you're in a relationship with and what works for both of you.
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All right, let's talk about cleaning your junk.
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I have looked up this past week many different websites and things like that about cleaning your cock cage.
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So our cleaning regimen right now is my subbie takes a shower usually twice a day because he showers before he goes to work and then he showers when he gets home from work because he's dusty and feels gross.
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So twice a day he is washing with soap and water and he has the type of cage that he can get his fingers in there, clean it out with some soap.
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We have a removable shower head.
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He can rinse it off real good and then once a week generally he will take it off to do some manscaping and gives it a good clean.
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We have an old toothbrush that is hidden for that use specifically.
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Get some Dawn Dish soap on there, scrub it off real good, make sure it's really clean, rinse it with real hot water before he let it cool down, obviously before he puts it back on.
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So far that's kind of been our cleaning regimen for his cage and it seems to be working.
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I did a little research and there are some people and this is really going to be dependent on the type of cage you have as well, because depending on how much airflow you get in there is going to determine the amount of smell from urine, would be my assumption.
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I know, when we had the full cage and I think we talked about this on a past episode too it was full steel with just a slit on the end and there was really no way to get in there and get it clean while he was wearing it.
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That one is something where you probably need to take it off, rinse it out with soap and water at least daily, because there's no ventilation in there.
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So if your pee doesn't come out that little hole right in the front and splatters anywhere inside there, the whole thing stunk and specifically with the one that we had, it started to rust, which we maybe should have done more research before we went with that one.
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It might be something like that might be better for, hey, we're going out on the town and this one looks fucking awesome.
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Let's put this one on.
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