0126 Female Led Relationships: What It's REALLY Like in an FLR

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Welcome to my bodily functions.

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Welcome back.

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Episode 26, bitches.

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She doesn't mean bitches.

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Let's talk.

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As you can tell, Masabi's here.

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That was a...

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Okay, so we're recording YouTube also.

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So I just held my thumbs up for those of you listening.

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So today, because Masabi's here, we've had some questions.

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We're going to do a question and answer session.

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We are.

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That's going to be fun.

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It should be real fun.

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Before we start with the questions.

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Chastity Mansion.

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Oh, how cool are those folks?

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My new favorite place to hang out.

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Yeah.

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Everyone is so friendly.

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So friendly.

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I love chatting with you guys.

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If you're listening, you make my heart happy.

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Her DMs are popping almost all the time.

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It's fun.

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I'm a busy girl.

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I like it.

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Okay.

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Someone sent me a message.

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Apparently, I hit the wrong hashtag button on a post I did.

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And I did hashtag cuckqueen.

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Probably not the right one.

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And somebody questioned me about that because a cuckqueen would really not work in our dynamic.

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Not at all.

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For anyone that maybe doesn't know what a cuckqueen is, I Googled it and got the Google definition for you.

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And it is a woman who willingly allows her boyfriend or husband to sleep around, feels aroused and or derives sexual pleasure by watching her boyfriend slash husband have sex with another woman.

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That is not me.

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I don't share well.

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No.

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Maybe someday, but right now.

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I think neither one of us have interest in that.

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I don't think so.

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Nope.

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Oh, another thing I got.

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It was an email about how they have been married for over 30 years and are tiptoeing into an FLR or female-led relationship.

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I was so excited to get that.

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I love hearing about people who have been together for so many years and are still finding ways to spice things up and try new things.

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Be creative.

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I love that.

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Love it.

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We were talking yesterday about that specific person or couple.

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They had been together for like six years or so.

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That's a different one.

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This couple has been together for 30 plus years.

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That's right.

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And the husband introduced it to the wife and they are tiptoeing into it.

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And it's fantastic.

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The couple you're talking about actually emailed me and just celebrated their seven-year wedding anniversary.

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And six months prior to that, or around their sixth year, they were on the verge of divorce.

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They went through some really hard times, life, things like that.

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And now their communication is fantastic.

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They're practicing a female-led relationship, a cuckolding relationship.

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And he said their relationship has never been better.

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And I would love to have them on the podcast.

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That would be great.

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And do an interview with them because honestly, this is like real life.

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Life fucking happens.

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How true is that?

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Especially today.

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Right.

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But I would love to have them on the podcast.

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So I am in the works to do something like that with them.

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I think you guys will really like it.

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I'm excited.

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Yeah.

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It's fun to talk to other people.

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Yes.

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Sometimes we get like in our own little bubble or whatever.

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And it's nice to talk to other people about things.

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Yes.

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And that's where Chastity Mansion is cool too.

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Yeah.

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Because that's full of people, just regular people.

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And that's just kind of a niche place as opposed to like a FET or, I don't know, adult friend finder or whatever.

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You know, it's really centralized on this.

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Yeah.

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And I like, I mean, FET life is good.

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It can be really overwhelming for beginners.

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Yeah.

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It sure can.

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Overwhelming.

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Yeah.

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It's a cool place, but you have to really, you have to spend some time there to find your space.

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So.

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Yes.

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I'm happy to be here.

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I'm happy to have you here.

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It's super fun.

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It's not the most comfortable setup right now though, I'm not gonna lie.

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Not at all.

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But we did what we had to do.

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If you could only see what's behind the camera.

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No, you don't really want to.

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It's, it could be worse, I suppose.

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We're a little bit of a disarray right now.

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Right.

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So we have a couple questions.

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Am I saying names?

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You don't have to say names.

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These are from Twitter.

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One of the questions was, was he, meaning my subbie, aware of his shortcomings?

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Or was this something you made him aware of?

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I think that from the beginning, I was pretty honest about.

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Sort of.

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Backhandedly, maybe.

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So I remember you telling me a story about the very first time you saw it.

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Oh, I was like, what the fuck?

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Where is it?

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Yeah.

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But then I rose to the occasion.

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I mean, it did the trick.

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Yes.

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I can't complain.

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I don't know if.

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I mean, it could be better.

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It could always be better.

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It's not dead yet.

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I think that in the beginning, I tiptoed into the humiliation quite slowly.

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For sure.

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I don't think it was anything that I was like right away.

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I saw it and I was like pointing and laughing at it or anything.

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Right now, however.

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Oh, you've warmed right off, haven't you?

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That's OK.

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The next question is, how long did he have to stay locked before you started seeing changes?

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I would say.

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Wait.

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Changes as far as what?

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It's not specific.

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What would you define changes as?

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OK, so there are actually a couple of different changes once you get locked up for a longer period of time.

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There are physical changes and there are attitude changes.

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Oh, the attitude changes were immediate.

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And it's weird because I don't know.

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I don't notice my attitude changes.

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Maybe there are little things that I do that I don't think I do or don't intend to do.

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I don't know.

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But you say it's different.

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So I can't.

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I mean.

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I mean, he's not an asshole if he's not caged.

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No.

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At all.

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Always.

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He's always very attentive.

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It's just when there is a little bit of weight in his hands, the attentiveness goes to a different level.

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As far as physical changes, the first few days, like we've said before, are a little rough because you get a little, in this case, little night boners.

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That wasn't very nice.

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They probably don't feel very little to him because it's like his little wiener forgets that there's a cage and decides to try and bust out and fails.

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No, not going to happen.

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But we've said, too, I think that gets better after a few days.

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Yeah, after a while, those don't those don't happen at night until you're, excuse me, until you're uncaged again for an extended period of time.

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And then you you get locked up again and you'll get him for another few nights.

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In my case, anyways, I don't know about everybody, but yeah.

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The physical changes.

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Also, the overall size.

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As if it couldn't get any smaller.

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It sure does.

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Boys, there's there's some shrinkage that occurs.

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At least I've noticed that.

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Could be different for everybody.

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Everybody's different.

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Everybody's their own person.

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Their body reacts to things differently.

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Right.

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On that note.

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Someone would like to know if we practice ball busting as a punishment.

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Somebody is warming right up to that.

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We dabble in it.

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As said before, we have a fucking house full of people.

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Right.

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And when this one over here is in pain, sometimes it's not overly quiet.

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Yeah, I'm sort of vocal.

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Yeah, very vocal.

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Like if he scratches his back, almost like orgasmic.

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Well, it feels good.

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So.

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The dollar back scratcher.

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Are you kidding me?

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Best dollar ever spent.

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So we have dabbled in it more so when we have some alone time, which is very rare.

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Camping season is coming.

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We may dabble in it a bit more intensely.

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He's over here crossing his fingers so he doesn't forget to say something.

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Hard or soft was the next question.

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We actually just had this discussion this morning in the shower.

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Oddly enough, I don't.

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I don't know that I would be considered hard in the ball punishment area.

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I'm still learning what I like because, you know, it's about me.

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But I also don't want to seriously injure him.

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So it's not super hard, but it's enough to make you.

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Oh, it's painful.

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Like as an aside from that, when, you know, we're scrolling on the Twitter or whatever.

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There are some gifs, gifs.

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However you want to say it.

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Whatever floats your boat.

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Tomato, tomato.

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Yeah.

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Where you see a woman just fucking haul off and, you know, place kick guy in the balls.

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And he's still standing.

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I don't even know how that's possible.

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No, because I will just tap him with my foot, barefoot, just the top of my foot.

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I'll just tap and he cringes a little bit.

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So yeah, like I feel it right away.

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So I don't know if it's like a tolerance thing or.

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So then my question to all of you guys out there, if there's any of you that practice this regularly, let me know the more you practice it.

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Do your balls kind of toughen up?

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Like, do they just get used to it and you can handle more of a firm kick or.

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That must be the case.

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I don't know.

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I just don't get it.

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I would be on on the floor in tears, writhing in pain with just one of those kicks for sure.

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And there's guys that just stand there.

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I do enjoy just a small little tap, small little rhythmic tap.

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That gets a little more intense the longer you do it.

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You got to work up.

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You got to warm them up.

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If you want to label it as warming up.

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OK, that works.

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So generally light tap that increases.

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I don't generally take a full swing at his balls.

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Not yet.

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It could be in the future.

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I'm getting a little warm over there.

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A little bit.

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I would just like to say that my mic situation sucks right now.

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Is it going limp?

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Well, it is kind of.

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I'm holding it in place.

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You just want to hold the microphone.

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Oh, that would look stupid.

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People listen.

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Yeah, but the people watching can see.

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OK.

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We got a Twitter message.

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Somebody wants to know how much my custom videos are.

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It's OK.

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Go ahead.

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So here's the deal on my custom videos.

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If you order an audio and would like to have a video of me recording your audio, I can do that.

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It is generally from the tits up, boobs up, whatever you want to say, of me recording your custom audio.

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As far as like live video chats right now, things like that, again, we have to go back to there is a house full of children.

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And this summer that might open up because it might be able to do it at Campmore.

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And we're hoping to be at Campmore during the week.

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But until we figure out our situation or how we're going to go about this, we don't have a whole lot of extra fundage to just go rent an office space where I could be able to do this or build a studio or whatever the case may be.

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So for right now, the video options available are you can order to have order on your custom audio to have me record it, video record it while I do the audio and I can send it all in a file.

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Right now, that's just where we're at.

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If that's something you're interested in, hit me up.

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In the future, there would probably be options for like a POV video of you using the customer's name.

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Yep.

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Of like a CBT thing or humiliation thing or.

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Yeah.

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It's possible.

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We just have to work out the bugs.

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Again, we're just.

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It's more about the space then.

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Okay, this is the next question.

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Just a little quick question.

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Does your sub do all of the chores?

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I mean like house cleaning, laundry, ironing, yard work.

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You say you share the cooking, but does he do everything else or do you still help out?

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So this is very dependent on a work schedule situation.

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His work ebbs and flows.

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Sometimes he is on multiple jobs, working late, things like that.

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I generally always, no matter what the work schedule is, even if he's home, I cook supper mainly because I'm a control freak and I want things done my fucking way and nobody else can cook as good as me.

00:16:34.480 --> 00:16:34.580
Correct.

00:16:34.899 --> 00:16:36.580
And I'm not a fantastic cook, but.

00:16:36.700 --> 00:16:37.440
Oh, she is though.

00:16:37.659 --> 00:16:39.899
It's my fucking kitchen and I want things done my way.

00:16:40.240 --> 00:16:41.860
So I'm a little bit of a spaz that way.

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So I do cook.

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Sometimes I will.

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Generally, I do the dishes control thing again.

00:16:48.120 --> 00:16:49.240
I want them done my way.

00:16:49.639 --> 00:16:50.860
Nobody else can do them right.

00:16:51.440 --> 00:16:52.340
I don't, I can't.

00:16:52.759 --> 00:16:54.659
I don't know why my brain processes that way.

00:16:54.659 --> 00:17:01.220
But shoveling the driveway, things like that when it's snowing or yard work, things like that.

00:17:01.500 --> 00:17:02.480
He generally does.

00:17:04.039 --> 00:17:06.220
As well as some other cleaning around the house.

00:17:06.358 --> 00:17:06.980
Yeah, yeah.

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And whatever.

00:17:08.000 --> 00:17:10.180
Like we're, we really are a team.

00:17:10.539 --> 00:17:10.680
Yeah.

00:17:10.880 --> 00:17:14.118
When it comes to whatever needs to get done, it just gets done.

00:17:14.660 --> 00:17:16.779
I generally take care of the inside of the house.

00:17:17.920 --> 00:17:19.940
He generally takes care of the outside of the house.

00:17:19.960 --> 00:17:20.160
Right.

00:17:20.160 --> 00:17:32.880
However, I mean, in hypothetical land, if we didn't have all these people in the house, I would love to make him put on a thong with his cage and make him clean the house and that.

00:17:33.180 --> 00:17:35.759
But it's just not an option right now.

00:17:36.019 --> 00:17:38.180
He does do things around the house though.

00:17:38.319 --> 00:17:40.059
It's not, it's not all on my shoulders.

00:17:40.440 --> 00:17:43.500
And my mom lives here and she does things sometimes too.

00:17:43.720 --> 00:17:47.920
So it, it's kind of a teamwork thing right now.

00:17:49.099 --> 00:17:52.240
Once we don't have the kids in the house, that might be entirely different.

00:17:52.440 --> 00:17:54.819
I mean, we won't be in a house in two years anyway.

00:17:55.119 --> 00:17:55.339
Right.

00:17:56.619 --> 00:17:57.720
That will change.

00:17:57.960 --> 00:17:58.720
That's a whole other.

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Yeah, that'll change the whole dynamic.

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Stay tuned.

00:18:03.160 --> 00:18:03.279
Yeah.

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Okay.

00:18:12.039 --> 00:18:16.259
The next question is, is my husband bisexual?

00:18:18.400 --> 00:18:20.200
He is what I tell him to be.

00:18:20.519 --> 00:18:20.960
Correct.

00:18:22.259 --> 00:18:23.579
Um, but yes.

00:18:23.779 --> 00:18:24.480
I'm not opposed.

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We have not dabbled in that a ton.

00:18:27.960 --> 00:18:29.500
Uh, I'm not opposed to that.

00:18:29.660 --> 00:18:30.740
It's kind of fucking hot.

00:18:30.839 --> 00:18:31.059
Yeah.

00:18:31.240 --> 00:18:33.059
The idea works well for you.

00:18:33.259 --> 00:18:37.740
Um, I guess I don't know if you would be labeled as that.

00:18:37.799 --> 00:18:39.660
I, I hate fucking labels.

00:18:39.740 --> 00:18:40.319
First of all.

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That's, that's true right there.

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We are attracted to people.

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Right.

00:18:45.940 --> 00:18:49.339
And their anatomy doesn't play a factor.

00:18:49.700 --> 00:18:50.140
Right.

00:18:50.140 --> 00:18:52.759
Their fucking brain and grammar does though.

00:18:52.960 --> 00:18:53.259
Yes.

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Just an FYI.

00:18:54.339 --> 00:18:54.599
Yes.

00:18:55.099 --> 00:18:56.579
Um, so I don't know.

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I mean, if we are physically attracted to someone.

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Then yeah.

00:19:04.279 --> 00:19:07.839
I mean, it's not, I don't know.

00:19:08.160 --> 00:19:09.660
So I guess maybe he is.

00:19:09.759 --> 00:19:12.500
I don't know how to answer that question.

00:19:12.640 --> 00:19:16.960
Well, you answered it, you know, I am whatever you say.

00:19:16.960 --> 00:19:23.559
Um, but at the same time, I'm, if I had a hard, like a hard, no problem to it.

00:19:23.640 --> 00:19:25.619
We have a safe word and I have yet to use that.

00:19:25.940 --> 00:19:26.799
Well, we have boundaries.

00:19:27.000 --> 00:19:30.319
I know him well enough to know what he likes and what he doesn't like.

00:19:30.460 --> 00:19:30.660
Right.

00:19:30.740 --> 00:19:33.019
And essentially he likes anything that turns me on.

00:19:33.160 --> 00:19:33.559
Correct.

00:19:33.740 --> 00:19:37.839
So as long as I'm okay with it, he's generally okay as well.

00:19:43.920 --> 00:19:47.220
Just out of curiosity, are you a female supremacist?

00:19:47.720 --> 00:19:49.359
That one seems a bit extreme.

00:19:50.119 --> 00:19:52.900
No, because again, it's a label.

00:19:53.359 --> 00:19:55.460
I mean, I support my gender.

00:19:55.960 --> 00:19:58.700
I, I mean, I think everybody should have equal rights.

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I of course feel in my relationship that female is superior, obviously.

00:20:05.039 --> 00:20:05.180
Right.

00:20:05.619 --> 00:20:07.299
In a general life.

00:20:07.619 --> 00:20:08.920
I, I don't know.

00:20:08.980 --> 00:20:24.839
I think probably the right person for the job is like the overall thing, you know, if you, like if you're a truck driver, it doesn't matter, you know, what gender or race or whatever.

00:20:25.039 --> 00:20:26.640
If you're a good truck driver, you're a good truck driver.

00:20:26.819 --> 00:20:32.740
If you're a scientist, you're a good scientist, you know, whatever doctor, I don't know.

00:20:33.140 --> 00:20:42.039
I don't, I don't feel like, I will tell you this podcast will never be used to discuss politics, race, anything like that.

00:20:42.039 --> 00:20:48.720
I want this to be a safe place where everybody is welcome.

00:20:48.980 --> 00:20:49.319
Right.

00:20:49.500 --> 00:20:56.599
We will not discuss presidential elections or candidates or the current president, anything like that.

00:20:56.740 --> 00:20:57.759
Not interested.

00:20:57.980 --> 00:20:59.920
No, I have nothing to say about that.

00:21:00.619 --> 00:21:07.980
As far as being a female supremacist, I, I mean, I like girl power, but I don't.

00:21:08.059 --> 00:21:10.660
I think supremacist is a little bit of an excessive word.

00:21:12.039 --> 00:21:12.299
Yeah.

00:21:15.079 --> 00:21:17.259
And that's that for that.

00:21:18.140 --> 00:21:19.240
I don't, I guess.

00:21:19.500 --> 00:21:20.000
That's fine.

00:21:20.079 --> 00:21:22.480
I mean, it just kind of fell off, but I don't know what to say.

00:21:23.039 --> 00:21:27.839
No, I mean, you don't, it's just an excessive word.

00:21:34.259 --> 00:21:35.259
A quick question.

00:21:36.299 --> 00:21:42.000
Do you do the cuckold thing or is it just on the table if you ever wanted to do it?

00:21:42.839 --> 00:21:44.079
We have dabbled.

00:21:44.200 --> 00:21:44.380
Right.

00:21:45.339 --> 00:21:48.660
Fun fact, I'm very picky about who I sleep with.

00:21:50.420 --> 00:21:51.140
I mean.

00:21:51.920 --> 00:21:52.799
Real picky.

00:21:54.400 --> 00:21:57.460
I mean, you have to have a little weed, just saying.

00:21:59.000 --> 00:22:00.900
I mean, if you want to look at it that way.

00:22:01.440 --> 00:22:04.220
I am extremely turned on by the thought.

00:22:04.700 --> 00:22:05.640
We have dabbled.

00:22:05.920 --> 00:22:13.099
The problem that I run into is where we have dabbled and who I have come in contact with.

00:22:13.539 --> 00:22:17.099
I struggle with not being in control.

00:22:17.779 --> 00:22:31.180
I am the dominant and the bulls that I have come in contact with or that we have explored with are also dominant and it did not end well.

00:22:31.400 --> 00:22:38.640
It's it's been a hard, a hard thing to find that equal.

00:22:40.220 --> 00:22:46.980
Like you respect them as a dominant, they respect you as a dominant, but there's no one out, one upping each other.

00:22:47.299 --> 00:22:47.619
Right.

00:22:47.819 --> 00:22:55.079
You know, that's probably a very difficult thing to find, although I mean, I'm sure it happens.

00:22:56.240 --> 00:22:58.640
I it's not out of the realm of possibility there.

00:22:58.759 --> 00:23:06.440
I mean, there's people all over that practice cuckolding relationships and the women are dominant and it's not an issue.

00:23:07.039 --> 00:23:08.019
And that goes back to.

00:23:10.420 --> 00:23:12.019
Shit, what does that go back to?

00:23:12.019 --> 00:23:18.980
I just hit my brain who you're attracted to.

00:23:19.640 --> 00:23:21.400
Yes, I seriously.

00:23:22.039 --> 00:23:28.440
So they they may be dominant, they may be submissive, they may not have care one way or the other.

00:23:28.980 --> 00:23:31.900
But if you're attracted to them, then they would be a candidate for that.

00:23:32.339 --> 00:23:33.619
It is all in how I get treated.

00:23:34.319 --> 00:23:39.920
I am turned on and attracted to people who treat me the way I like to be treated.

00:23:40.180 --> 00:23:40.319
Right.

00:23:40.819 --> 00:23:44.279
That does not mean that I would never interact with a dominant bull.

00:23:44.859 --> 00:23:45.099
Right.

00:23:45.539 --> 00:23:50.740
It's just a matter of an intellectual fucking sense of humor.

00:23:50.960 --> 00:23:53.180
If you have a sense of humor, I'm putting your fucking hands.

00:23:53.680 --> 00:23:55.500
I love sense of humor.

00:23:56.579 --> 00:23:57.319
Reel her in, boys.

00:23:58.039 --> 00:23:59.519
If you can make me laugh for me.

00:23:59.720 --> 00:23:59.920
Yeah.

00:24:01.059 --> 00:24:03.700
Clearly, it wasn't as weiner anyway.

00:24:04.160 --> 00:24:06.160
See, she's really good at this now, isn't she?

00:24:08.160 --> 00:24:08.980
Sense of humor.

00:24:09.180 --> 00:24:12.960
So, yes, we have dabbled in cuckolding.

00:24:15.279 --> 00:24:16.680
It is not off the table.

00:24:16.900 --> 00:24:18.099
I think it's fucking hot.

00:24:19.559 --> 00:24:24.880
We just have to I just have to find the right person that I'm comfortable with.

00:24:25.220 --> 00:24:30.339
And they have to be comfortable with me taking things probably a little slow.

00:24:30.900 --> 00:24:34.420
It's about the pace and it's about the setting and the person.

00:24:34.640 --> 00:24:37.920
And there's some variables involved, but it's definitely.

00:24:39.339 --> 00:24:40.380
Definitely there.

00:24:41.599 --> 00:24:42.299
On the table.

00:24:43.279 --> 00:24:44.279
Face it in butter.

00:24:44.579 --> 00:24:45.480
I like butter.

00:24:48.559 --> 00:24:49.519
Like a turkey.

00:24:56.579 --> 00:25:01.720
This is some feedback on my boring episode.

00:25:03.579 --> 00:25:04.880
God, that was a rough week.

00:25:05.059 --> 00:25:05.839
It's not really funny.

00:25:05.980 --> 00:25:08.519
It was just a bad week.

00:25:08.599 --> 00:25:09.539
It was a bad week.

00:25:09.700 --> 00:25:14.900
And it's man, if ever there was something to show that people are just human, that was.

00:25:15.500 --> 00:25:20.339
So the feedback that I got said loved the last quote, boring episode.

00:25:20.740 --> 00:25:24.980
So many people think that Dom sub relationships are BDSM all the time.

00:25:25.299 --> 00:25:26.880
It's amazing when it does happen.

00:25:27.140 --> 00:25:29.019
But boring quote, pay the bills.

00:25:29.220 --> 00:25:32.420
Quote, life happens more often than the fun time.

00:25:32.640 --> 00:25:35.720
It was nice to hear it come from someone else, too.

00:25:36.359 --> 00:25:38.119
Yes, this is my people right here.

00:25:38.339 --> 00:25:42.819
Yeah, I am not like a porno.

00:25:42.819 --> 00:25:45.400
I'm not fucking horny all the time.

00:25:45.599 --> 00:25:51.180
Not, you know, whipping his ass constantly or leading him around by his cage with a dog leash.

00:25:51.819 --> 00:25:55.759
However, I say that a lot because someday it will happen.

00:25:56.180 --> 00:25:57.700
You've mentioned that a few times.

00:25:57.940 --> 00:25:58.380
I can't.

00:25:58.500 --> 00:25:59.180
I mean, camp.

00:25:59.920 --> 00:26:01.940
It's going to be a good camping season, everyone.

00:26:02.240 --> 00:26:02.920
It could happen.

00:26:04.980 --> 00:26:06.500
But life happens.

00:26:07.000 --> 00:26:08.460
We have a lot of shit going on.

00:26:08.579 --> 00:26:10.980
And I mean, we are as real as it gets.

00:26:10.980 --> 00:26:14.220
You will hear us say the same things over and over many times.

00:26:14.500 --> 00:26:17.539
But we are working on breaking our circle of insanity.

00:26:18.099 --> 00:26:19.960
And it is what it is.

00:26:20.000 --> 00:26:20.779
It's just who we are.

00:26:21.119 --> 00:26:21.500
Right, right.

00:26:21.619 --> 00:26:24.720
I mean, you don't you don't want to sway from who we are.

00:26:25.279 --> 00:26:36.440
And I think it's one of the bigger points of the podcast is to relate that, you know, to those who are just like dabbling in it or thinking about it or whatever.

00:26:36.440 --> 00:26:54.200
And this overwhelming sense or whatever or pressure that you get that when you think of an FLR or a DS relationship, it's, you know, this 30 second porno clip or you have to wear thigh high boots with whatever.

00:26:54.740 --> 00:26:57.460
You know, it's it's a way of life.

00:26:57.779 --> 00:27:02.059
It's it's just, you know, who we are.

00:27:02.059 --> 00:27:06.819
And it's, you know, as far as this goes for anyone else, that's who you are.

00:27:07.500 --> 00:27:11.119
It's how it fits into your life and your parameters and all that.

00:27:11.660 --> 00:27:12.519
And it's just.

00:27:13.420 --> 00:27:17.819
Side note, I'm sitting here texting children upstairs while we record this.

00:27:17.900 --> 00:27:19.059
So I sincerely apologize.

00:27:19.420 --> 00:27:21.839
I'm listening to what he has to say is not really.

00:27:22.000 --> 00:27:27.720
But there is shit that has to be handled like immediately, because that's how our sense of urgency works in the teenage mind.

00:27:28.299 --> 00:27:31.059
Anyways, it's just about the reality.

00:27:31.660 --> 00:27:33.799
And stupid exits anyway.

00:27:35.019 --> 00:27:35.700
So sorry.

00:27:42.119 --> 00:27:47.119
The next one we have, because this is my this is my ADD brain.

00:27:47.400 --> 00:27:47.940
It's like that long.

00:27:48.359 --> 00:27:50.579
OK, I have a question.

00:27:51.339 --> 00:27:59.240
Before and after your husband introduced the idea of an FLR, female led relationship to me, what was my reaction to his penis size?

00:27:59.380 --> 00:28:01.119
Well, we kind of touched on this in the beginning.

00:28:01.119 --> 00:28:01.460
Right.

00:28:03.140 --> 00:28:06.759
Even after he introduced it, the humiliation thing wasn't.

00:28:08.799 --> 00:28:14.319
I struggled a lot with it because, man, the second I met this man, I was head over heels.

00:28:15.640 --> 00:28:16.720
A little weenie or not.

00:28:18.019 --> 00:28:20.759
Hey, it's tough to under touch, uncle.

00:28:23.339 --> 00:28:25.700
However, he's really good at it these days.

00:28:26.480 --> 00:28:30.539
That was my biggest struggle with the humiliation.

00:28:31.339 --> 00:28:35.359
And the spanking and all of this stuff.

00:28:35.599 --> 00:28:41.259
I struggled because I love him so much that I couldn't get my brain wrapped around the fact that.

00:28:42.380 --> 00:28:44.119
It wasn't a bad thing.

00:28:45.819 --> 00:28:53.700
And I think I'm not the only one that struggles with that, I think that because I'm getting a lot of feedback that that is the hardest part.

00:28:54.200 --> 00:29:06.240
Yeah, females specifically are overcoming or trying to overcome with this is getting out of their head that you're hurting them in a bad way, but you're not.

00:29:06.380 --> 00:29:08.519
And I kind of touched on it with the whole spanking.

00:29:09.279 --> 00:29:09.380
Right.

00:29:09.579 --> 00:29:22.680
I never thought of it as a way for him to just zone out, be with me, focus on the moment that it could be a stress reliever.

00:29:23.680 --> 00:29:25.880
You just really have to change your perspective.

00:29:26.420 --> 00:29:29.380
Obviously, I'm warming up to it six years into it.

00:29:30.039 --> 00:29:32.940
But again, you have to go at your own pace.

00:29:33.500 --> 00:29:39.460
And a lot of it is either changing your perspective of how you look at it or focusing on the results.

00:29:39.799 --> 00:29:45.559
Back to that email that I received from that couple that just celebrated their seven year anniversary.

00:29:47.839 --> 00:30:00.400
In the email, it said that, excuse me, she was struggling to wrap her head around the fact that this worked and that she didn't have to be nurturing necessarily.

00:30:00.700 --> 00:30:01.900
She could be the one in control.

00:30:02.279 --> 00:30:18.119
But now she's focusing more on the actual physical results and seeing how things, focusing on the actual way their relationship is working now rather than why for that aspect specifically.

00:30:18.700 --> 00:30:25.059
So just focusing more on the results and less on overthinking of why, which I am the fucking queen of overthinking.

00:30:25.539 --> 00:30:29.460
So yeah, for sure.

00:30:29.859 --> 00:30:31.640
That is to the overthinkers out there.

00:30:31.700 --> 00:30:32.279
You're not alone.

00:30:32.859 --> 00:30:34.059
And on my rant.

00:30:35.599 --> 00:30:39.880
So no, I didn't really have a humiliation reaction.

00:30:42.700 --> 00:30:44.460
And now I'm all about it.

00:30:47.279 --> 00:30:53.079
It's funny, though, it says before he introduced the idea, was there some what's going on?

00:30:55.319 --> 00:30:57.359
I love Twitter people.

00:30:58.099 --> 00:31:04.140
As my subbie mentioned, the very first time I saw it, I was like, where is it?

00:31:05.019 --> 00:31:09.039
Because it was a little chilly in the bathroom and it was all tucked up inside.

00:31:11.660 --> 00:31:15.059
But yes, it was a little taken aback.

00:31:16.559 --> 00:31:22.180
So the end of it is I'd like my wife to get more into the gentle humiliation aspect.

00:31:22.180 --> 00:31:24.319
But I think she doesn't want to hurt my feelings.

00:31:24.779 --> 00:31:25.480
Ironic, right?

00:31:25.960 --> 00:31:26.720
It is.

00:31:26.839 --> 00:31:28.039
But I get it.

00:31:28.180 --> 00:31:29.279
I totally get it.

00:31:30.220 --> 00:31:32.500
It's hard to wrap your head around it.

00:31:33.220 --> 00:31:40.460
I still every now and then something will pop into my head and I tend to filter it a little because I feel like it's too mean.

00:31:42.500 --> 00:31:44.440
And then sometimes the filter just goes away.

00:31:44.579 --> 00:31:44.740
Yeah.

00:31:45.079 --> 00:31:48.700
The only filter you probably need is like around the kids.

00:31:49.220 --> 00:31:49.700
Yeah.

00:31:49.759 --> 00:31:50.279
Or your mom.

00:31:50.880 --> 00:31:51.140
Yeah.

00:31:51.140 --> 00:31:53.559
That's probably the only filter, but anything.

00:31:56.319 --> 00:32:01.380
Just making sure I have gotten all the questions here.

00:32:08.000 --> 00:32:09.440
I'm looking for a key holder.

00:32:09.940 --> 00:32:13.240
Are you also into blackmail or forced buy?

00:32:14.539 --> 00:32:17.359
My key holding services are being fine tuned.

00:32:17.740 --> 00:32:18.819
I offer them.

00:32:19.059 --> 00:32:22.319
They're very specific to each individual person.

00:32:22.420 --> 00:32:23.359
That's the statement.

00:32:23.640 --> 00:32:23.740
Right.

00:32:23.740 --> 00:32:31.720
So I'm not necessarily opposed to anything specific.

00:32:34.140 --> 00:32:38.960
It really is just on the basis of what the client is looking for.

00:32:39.460 --> 00:32:44.759
And I have a generalized standard contract that I send out and you review it.

00:32:44.880 --> 00:32:49.700
Everything in it is negotiable because just like this type of relationship, there has to be boundaries.

00:32:49.700 --> 00:32:51.839
Clear communication is important.

00:32:52.599 --> 00:32:55.839
And I say contract, but it's an agreement.

00:32:56.000 --> 00:33:01.819
Obviously, it's not legal binding, legally binding, but it has everything has to be very clear.

00:33:02.140 --> 00:33:05.559
There has to be clear communication and boundaries have to be set.

00:33:06.180 --> 00:33:06.380
So.

00:33:06.720 --> 00:33:08.859
And like, I mean, you said the word negotiations.

00:33:10.680 --> 00:33:11.799
Guys, it's.

00:33:14.559 --> 00:33:16.220
Welcome to our voiceover world.

00:33:16.220 --> 00:33:21.359
Guys, it's all about the negotiation.

00:33:21.599 --> 00:33:25.819
So you may have expectations and you may have needs or desires or anything.

00:33:26.200 --> 00:33:36.039
And in the part of in the at the point of negotiations is where you bring all of that stuff up and you might not get everything you want out of the situation.

00:33:36.559 --> 00:33:44.539
I guess it's just it depends on and if you're not getting exactly what you want out of the situation, maybe a certain key holder is not for you.

00:33:44.960 --> 00:33:45.099
Right.

00:33:45.099 --> 00:33:46.380
I am not for everybody.

00:33:46.579 --> 00:33:47.839
I am not everybody's cup of tea.

00:33:48.200 --> 00:33:50.319
There's there's a buffet of rights.

00:33:50.619 --> 00:33:51.539
Nor will I ever be.

00:33:52.039 --> 00:33:53.680
And I will be the first to tell you.

00:33:53.900 --> 00:33:55.700
Yeah, I don't think this is going to work.

00:33:55.980 --> 00:33:56.119
Right.

00:33:56.420 --> 00:33:57.220
And that's OK.

00:33:57.700 --> 00:33:57.940
Yeah.

00:33:58.259 --> 00:34:02.380
And I mean, I don't want to take I'm not it's not about me taking your money.

00:34:02.680 --> 00:34:04.480
I'm not trying to get rich here.

00:34:05.220 --> 00:34:07.079
Yeah, it's certainly not a situation.

00:34:07.400 --> 00:34:09.460
No, I want to.

00:34:11.380 --> 00:34:13.420
OK, so long and short of it.

00:34:13.420 --> 00:34:15.760
It turns me on to turn other people on.

00:34:16.219 --> 00:34:20.079
So I mean, and I and I enjoy the act of it.

00:34:20.199 --> 00:34:23.800
I enjoy the whole key holding aspect.

00:34:24.280 --> 00:34:29.719
So I want to be in control, but I also want to make sure you are enjoying your experience.

00:34:29.800 --> 00:34:34.320
And if I feel like we're not a good fit, I will fucking tell you I don't want your money if we're not a good fit.

00:34:34.500 --> 00:34:34.659
Right.

00:34:35.659 --> 00:34:39.360
And that's happened a couple of times.

00:34:39.599 --> 00:34:43.039
So, you know, things just aren't always a perfect fit.

00:34:43.659 --> 00:34:49.360
I may not be everybody's cup of tea, but I did get a message that says my boobs are unbelievable.

00:34:50.219 --> 00:34:51.179
Well, thank you.

00:34:53.360 --> 00:34:55.940
And it followed up by they make me hard want to see.

00:34:58.159 --> 00:35:01.320
If you've listened to my podcast, you know how I am about dick pics.

00:35:01.559 --> 00:35:01.940
Yes.

00:35:02.239 --> 00:35:03.559
That's where you're going with that.

00:35:05.320 --> 00:35:05.719
I.

00:35:06.860 --> 00:35:11.280
Unless you want to have the guy pay to rape you, then that's a whole different deal.

00:35:11.420 --> 00:35:11.599
Right.

00:35:11.599 --> 00:35:13.079
If you want to pay me to read it.

00:35:15.119 --> 00:35:15.639
OK.

00:35:16.739 --> 00:35:17.920
A dick is a dick.

00:35:19.659 --> 00:35:21.500
They don't all look the same.

00:35:21.780 --> 00:35:23.900
I'm not saying they do by any means.

00:35:24.480 --> 00:35:30.480
But once you've seen one, you've seen pretty much what the rest of them are generally going to look like.

00:35:30.800 --> 00:35:30.900
Right.

00:35:32.420 --> 00:35:36.340
Now, if you message me and say.

00:35:37.760 --> 00:35:42.420
I just listened to your audio and it really got me worked up.

00:35:43.039 --> 00:35:45.280
This is the biggest reaction I've ever had.

00:35:46.079 --> 00:35:47.579
Do you want to see a picture of it?

00:35:49.159 --> 00:35:50.940
It's a 50 50 shot there.

00:35:51.920 --> 00:35:58.119
I mean, I enjoy seeing the fruits of my labor, but just be respectful about it.

00:35:58.400 --> 00:36:00.219
Like we're not in high school.

00:36:01.139 --> 00:36:02.039
I don't know.

00:36:03.039 --> 00:36:03.300
Yes.

00:36:04.639 --> 00:36:09.539
It's OK to move past that mentality that every woman wants to see your wiener.

00:36:09.539 --> 00:36:14.420
The opening message of, hey, I want to see my cock is not going to get you far with no.

00:36:15.719 --> 00:36:22.739
Good wordplay and sentence structure and just being a decent human being.

00:36:23.639 --> 00:36:24.320
Yeah.

00:36:25.739 --> 00:36:26.860
Good conversation.

00:36:27.079 --> 00:36:27.219
Yeah.

00:36:28.539 --> 00:36:29.639
Let me see what else.

00:36:31.099 --> 00:36:39.000
On that note, I think we talked for some time before I sent anything.

00:36:41.099 --> 00:36:42.079
I remember, right?

00:36:42.980 --> 00:36:44.579
Because I wasn't all about.

00:36:45.880 --> 00:36:46.699
Oh, yeah.

00:36:46.800 --> 00:36:47.300
You want to see my dick?

00:36:47.579 --> 00:36:49.280
I don't know if you ever sent me a picture of your dick.

00:36:49.380 --> 00:36:49.619
Yeah.

00:36:49.760 --> 00:36:51.480
That took quite some time.

00:36:51.719 --> 00:36:52.960
I'm probably a good thing you didn't.

00:36:53.739 --> 00:36:55.280
Maybe I was hiding something.

00:36:56.099 --> 00:36:58.239
Or it was hiding bait and switch.

00:37:01.809 --> 00:37:04.789
OK, I think there is one more.

00:37:06.130 --> 00:37:08.130
Which will close this out.

00:37:08.469 --> 00:37:10.269
It's a good closing point.

00:37:10.309 --> 00:37:10.809
Oh, good.

00:37:11.869 --> 00:37:19.059
Well, it's OK.

00:37:19.420 --> 00:37:25.579
This one is I'm in an FLR with my wife and we have dabbled on and off for more than 10 years.

00:37:25.860 --> 00:37:28.159
Our current one has been since June.

00:37:28.739 --> 00:37:31.539
Is it safe to say your coaching is a paid service?

00:37:32.860 --> 00:37:40.739
So I'm really struggling with the structure of my coaching because this whole podcast is here to help.

00:37:40.980 --> 00:37:44.340
I want to help people navigate their journey.

00:37:45.099 --> 00:37:45.599
Right.

00:37:45.920 --> 00:37:53.519
The podcast is a big general tips or whatever, talk about experiences, whatever.

00:37:53.679 --> 00:37:54.780
It's just a big general thing.

00:37:55.000 --> 00:37:58.320
And some people have very specific things they want to talk about.

00:37:59.599 --> 00:38:02.679
The coaching is a paid service.

00:38:03.800 --> 00:38:08.400
Sending me an email or a message on Twitter or anything like that.

00:38:08.440 --> 00:38:09.920
I mean, you can ask me questions.

00:38:09.920 --> 00:38:15.699
I'm not saying like, you know, just a generalized question.

00:38:15.880 --> 00:38:21.480
We can do it on a podcast episode like this if this is something that people enjoy hearing us talk about.

00:38:21.699 --> 00:38:41.579
So far, the clients that I've had, what we're mainly doing or what the main request has been so far for the coaching services is Skype phone call with my subbie and I so that you have both of us and you can talk to both of us and you and your partner can ask him questions if you have questions, you can ask me questions.

00:38:41.739 --> 00:38:43.219
It does not have to be that way.

00:38:44.019 --> 00:38:52.000
I can do one on one with somebody if they want to do a Skype call, a phone call, whatever it's whatever your comfort level is.

00:38:52.199 --> 00:39:01.019
It's more of a structured conversation, I guess, about more in detail things like how did you do this or how did you do that?

00:39:01.280 --> 00:39:09.860
And as far as the fee goes, it's kind of a sliding thing because it's not a set thing, which is similar to the key holding thing.

00:39:09.980 --> 00:39:17.480
It's not really a set thing, you know, because it doesn't make sense for you to charge a stupid amount for somebody can't afford or whatever.

00:39:17.699 --> 00:39:22.719
You know, some people who may be a little more well off or whatever, maybe they offer a little bit more.

00:39:23.219 --> 00:39:25.460
If you're not well off, you can only offer so much.

00:39:25.500 --> 00:39:28.900
And that's it's more about the help than it is about.

00:39:29.239 --> 00:39:34.340
I just really enjoy helping people or offering my advice.

00:39:34.780 --> 00:39:36.940
You do with my advice what you want to do with it.

00:39:36.940 --> 00:39:37.880
You do your own research.

00:39:38.039 --> 00:39:39.679
You do what you're comfortable with.

00:39:39.719 --> 00:39:45.320
Don't ever do something because I said to do it because I fucking don't know everything and I am not fucking perfect.

00:39:46.519 --> 00:39:53.800
But generally for the coaching, I ask what you think a fair amount is because I want you to feel like you're getting value for your money.

00:39:53.920 --> 00:39:59.260
I don't want you to, oh, I paid her $100 an hour and I didn't get shit out of it.

00:39:59.360 --> 00:40:01.039
Well, that's not what I want.

00:40:01.179 --> 00:40:15.340
I want you to pay what you feel is fair, what you feel you can afford, because I don't want somebody to not eat because they're, I mean, that's a bit extreme, obviously, but, you know, oh my God, I can't make my rent this month because I'm paying her for this or whatever.

00:40:15.579 --> 00:40:16.320
Don't do that.

00:40:16.679 --> 00:40:17.659
I just want to help.

00:40:17.920 --> 00:40:27.260
And the money that I make doing the counseling just goes back into the podcast or equipment that he doesn't have to fucking hold up.

00:40:27.559 --> 00:40:34.980
Or I don't know, maybe a space where we're not sitting on our beds, sinking down in where I'm sure this is a very attractive view.

00:40:34.980 --> 00:40:35.239
Right.

00:40:35.320 --> 00:40:37.519
A lot of this goes right back into what we're doing.

00:40:37.659 --> 00:40:37.800
Yeah.

00:40:39.900 --> 00:40:42.300
So if you have any questions, yeah.

00:40:43.539 --> 00:40:45.679
Ask, you know, email me, whatever.

00:40:46.179 --> 00:40:48.019
I do my best to respond to emails quickly.

00:40:49.260 --> 00:41:06.480
And I wanted to say to the patrons who are on your Patreon, thank you for your support because the hosting for this does cost a few bucks and, you know, it's not like bank breaking things, but it cuts into the budget a little bit.

00:41:06.780 --> 00:41:14.719
And to have the help for that, the hosting platform is extremely appreciated.

00:41:15.159 --> 00:41:20.579
I struggle a little bit with what to post on there because I don't know what you guys want to see.

00:41:21.500 --> 00:41:21.800
Yeah.

00:41:21.980 --> 00:41:26.260
I mean, I try to put posts on in end goals.

00:41:26.579 --> 00:41:29.460
We would like to post the podcast there early.

00:41:30.639 --> 00:41:32.119
That is our thought.

00:41:32.119 --> 00:41:35.159
So before it gets everywhere else, it goes to Patreon.

00:41:35.739 --> 00:41:41.079
Patreon, I think, was kind of designed to help with the coaching if people are more comfortable going through Patreon.

00:41:41.360 --> 00:41:45.900
However, you absolutely do not have to go through Patreon if you do not want to.

00:41:46.460 --> 00:41:46.940
There are other...

00:41:46.940 --> 00:41:47.519
Oh, it's an option.

00:41:47.639 --> 00:41:48.659
Yeah, it's just an option.

00:41:48.880 --> 00:42:01.760
But it's a platform too where if you wanted to have like a live Q&A, you know, like we've watched Patreon live from, you know, other people we follow on YouTube or whatever it is, and they do like a live Q&A, you know?

00:42:01.760 --> 00:42:09.420
So that might be a possibility once a month or once a quarter or I don't know, whatever it might be.

00:42:10.260 --> 00:42:16.239
I'm always open to suggestions to what you guys want to hear or see or anything like that.

00:42:16.320 --> 00:42:26.980
And I'm more than happy to drag my subbie onto my bed for situations like this where we can answer questions or just have a conversation.

00:42:27.280 --> 00:42:27.380
Yeah.

00:42:29.159 --> 00:42:30.139
Questions are fun.

00:42:31.760 --> 00:42:32.739
Questions are fun.

00:42:33.360 --> 00:42:35.380
I wasn't doing that.

00:42:36.760 --> 00:42:37.880
Questions are fun.

00:42:38.559 --> 00:42:39.940
Questions are fun.

00:42:40.219 --> 00:42:40.320
Yeah.

00:42:41.079 --> 00:42:41.639
Yep.

00:42:42.360 --> 00:42:43.099
You got all of them?

00:42:43.420 --> 00:42:44.039
Yeah, that's it.

00:42:44.139 --> 00:42:44.760
A sand of her.

00:42:48.780 --> 00:42:51.159
You should see her lock screen.

00:42:51.760 --> 00:42:53.039
So my daughter...

00:42:53.039 --> 00:42:55.139
You shouldn't see her lock screen, but you should see her lock screen.

00:42:55.199 --> 00:42:55.599
It's funny.

00:42:55.800 --> 00:43:01.519
My daughter likes to take my electronic devices and take funny pictures and make it my wallpaper.

00:43:01.760 --> 00:43:02.360
Yeah.

00:43:03.000 --> 00:43:04.920
All of my devices are her.

00:43:05.420 --> 00:43:07.119
She's good for a chuckle, that one.

00:43:07.420 --> 00:43:08.960
Except for my phone is her dog.

00:43:09.239 --> 00:43:10.500
So I mean, you see the trend.

00:43:10.800 --> 00:43:11.079
Right.

00:43:11.980 --> 00:43:12.280
Right.

00:43:12.820 --> 00:43:13.940
I think that does it.

00:43:14.079 --> 00:43:15.099
I think that does it too.

00:43:15.199 --> 00:43:16.039
And I have to be...

00:43:16.039 --> 00:43:19.940
Oh, well, we should probably wrap it up then.

00:43:20.300 --> 00:43:20.639
I will.

00:43:21.840 --> 00:43:22.980
Enjoy that, you guys.

00:43:23.280 --> 00:43:25.099
Welcome to my bodily functions.

00:43:28.300 --> 00:43:29.539
That's totally Lee.

00:43:32.039 --> 00:43:32.559
Okay.

00:43:32.980 --> 00:43:37.860
Next week, it's undecided if my subbie will be back with me or not.

00:43:38.019 --> 00:43:38.119
Yeah.

00:43:38.199 --> 00:43:45.360
But next week's topic is swinging plus FLR equals cuckolding.

00:43:45.800 --> 00:43:46.659
Yes or no?

00:43:46.980 --> 00:43:47.719
Or does it?

00:43:48.519 --> 00:43:50.739
Yeah, that should be a good one too.

00:43:51.360 --> 00:43:51.699
Yes.

00:43:52.360 --> 00:43:56.920
And I haven't decided if I will allow little weenie over here to come back on or not.

00:43:58.079 --> 00:44:00.199
You might see us from this bed again.

00:44:00.199 --> 00:44:01.539
We're not really sure.

00:44:01.800 --> 00:44:03.440
Or here's the thing.

00:44:03.659 --> 00:44:10.340
It's either a bed, as you've noticed from the last one we did, or a vehicle, which we've done that before too.

00:44:10.659 --> 00:44:12.480
Should we put a little poll up on Patreon?

00:44:12.619 --> 00:44:13.280
Where do you want to see us?

00:44:13.280 --> 00:44:14.460
In our car or on a bed?

00:44:16.139 --> 00:44:16.659
Or other.

00:44:17.300 --> 00:44:18.880
I'd like to see recommendations.

00:44:19.820 --> 00:44:21.679
Hit us up where you want to see us.

00:44:21.920 --> 00:44:22.500
Our roof?

00:44:22.639 --> 00:44:23.760
I don't think that's going to happen.

00:44:23.800 --> 00:44:24.800
No, it's fucking cold.

00:44:25.579 --> 00:44:27.139
It's snowing outside right now.

00:44:29.019 --> 00:44:29.420
Okay.

00:44:30.199 --> 00:44:32.039
We have to wrap it up because my bladder is full.

00:44:32.300 --> 00:44:33.260
Thank you for having me.

00:44:33.780 --> 00:44:34.840
Thank you for being here.

00:44:35.159 --> 00:44:36.079
It's super fun.

00:44:37.340 --> 00:44:37.760
Yes.

00:44:38.619 --> 00:44:39.900
I mean, we're on the bed.

00:44:40.619 --> 00:44:44.619
Anyway, everyone, have a great fucking week.

00:44:45.380 --> 00:44:46.420
Be decent human beings.

00:44:47.239 --> 00:44:48.760
I love you all and we'll see you next week.

00:44:49.300 --> 00:44:49.760
Can we come in?