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As a complete side note, I was actually quite turned on by the idea of having heat in the car when it's that cold.
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This podcast is intended for mature audiences only If you are not 18 years of age or older.
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There are thousands of other podcasts you can listen to and you can come back and visit us when you are 18.
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This podcast is meant solely for entertainment.
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We are not licensed doctors, lawyers or therapists.
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We simply have a fascination with the lifestyle and I'd love to share it with you and get your thoughts and opinions.
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Welcome back, episode 24.
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So this is a bit of a short episode.
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We have some life things going on, but you've taken the time to listen to my ramblings and that literally blows my mind, so I feel that it's important for me to spend some time with you.
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This podcast is about a journey and there are ups and downs in a journey.
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Mayhabi and I are in a bit of a down with the health of a family member, so while he and I are hours apart, we will work together like we always do to keep on task.
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Thank you sincerely for listening.
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So this episode is mostly housekeeping, or all housekeeping.
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This last week has been a hot mess for me personally, I don't know what it is if there is some sort of shift in the atmosphere, if it's the fact that it's fucking cold here, if it's shark week impending, I don't know.
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I've just felt like I have water brain and or fog head.
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So this should be fun.
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So let me start with this Emails.
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The link is in the show notes.
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I love, love, love getting emails and DMs from other couples who are in their own place in their FLR journey.
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I've gotten a couple pretty extensive emails and love that you all feel comfortable enough to share with me where you are in your journey.
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This makes me smile.
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It feels like we are growing a community from this podcast.
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I knew that I wasn't alone in my journey and I'm so happy to meet you all in your place in your journey.
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Again, I'm not an expert.
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Nobody really is.
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I just have my experience and what I've learned along the way.
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Please email me, dm me, If you would like to dive a little deeper into your journey.
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I am tiptoeing into coaching, so please, women, men, couples, if you are interested in that at all, please reach out to me.
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I would love to help in any way that I can love, to help in any way that I can.
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My subbie and I will be launching full-time in our camper no, we're not crazy Sometime in the summer or fall of 2022.
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Our girls will be graduated, so it will be my subbie and I and my youngest son possibly my daughter.
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That lifestyle requires a shift in revenue streams.
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My subbie built a temporary recording booth in the bathroom of our camper last year.
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We gave it a workout to test it at camp.
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In fact, the first handful of episodes of this podcast were recorded in the bathroom of a 1986 Jayco travel trailer at our clothing optional lifestyle campground that we are residents at each season.
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Fun right.
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So the voice thing, along with other strategies that we have worked up over the last year, will enable us to live full-time in our camper and travel the US.
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At least, that's our plan.
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You can email or DM me if you have any thoughts or suggestions about that too.
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There is a whole other side of content that we produce that focuses on that part of our lives as well.
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Yes, we have a lot of shit going on.
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It is a challenge sometimes, especially for me some days, but it's actually really fun and the learning that is happening in this process is amazing, and I'm glad that we're learning it now and not when we're already on the road.
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Male chastity was a world that hadn't existed to me until the day that my subbie sent me a meme from our Tumblr.
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Rest in peace, tumblr.
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He sends me things from there time to time to introduce me to something I may or may not find interesting.
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Not only was a caged cock interesting.
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My first response to my subbie was Fuck.
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Yes, and I think anybody that's listened to this knows where I stand and where I was the first time.
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We put a cage on his little dick as soon as we could, and that became a legit part of our relationship, not just a kink, but our way of life.
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If you aren't aware, I offer a key holding service.
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I offer it because I know there are single men out there fascinated with the thought of being controlled by a woman, know there are single men out there fascinated with the thought of being controlled by a woman.
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No-transcript.
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Again, this is about a virtual dom-sub relationship.
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I take that relationship very seriously, so it's not just a silly thing that I do, it's a passion of mine that I deeply enjoy.
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All my links are in my show notes.
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This is my first podcast, and bear with me If this is the first podcast of mine that you're listening to.
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This is not how I always sound.
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I am just exhausted and I don't feel the greatest.
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But I wanted to get this out because I care about the people that take the time to listen.
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I am very much learning as I go.
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I know that other shows plan and record episodes way ahead so that they sit on their hosting platform and schedule them to drop.
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That's way too organized.
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We would rather fly by the seat of our pants and cram it at the last minute.
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As much as I would like to say I wish that weren't true.
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It very much is.
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We know there is a better way of doing this, and by we.
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My subbie is a big part of getting this podcast dropped every week, so I very much appreciate him.
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There have been a couple times where, in fact, he has been up editing and building the podcast till 2 am.
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So while we work on improving our workflow, we would like to ask you, the listener, to give us your opinions on topics that I can cover.
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I sincerely value the suggestions that I've gotten already and I sincerely look forward to what you all come up with going forward and I love to be challenged.
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The best place to do all that honestly is my Patreon.
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I don't want to sound greedy, but it does take a few bucks to get this podcast out to you all, along with other costs like the website and such.
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So I post polls there for the group to decide what they would like to hear, and, of course, you would be welcome to add your two cents as well.
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It's a pretty affordable entry if you feel like you are a part of guiding this forward.
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Either way, I love that you listen and you are important to me.
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I'm wondering if you would all be interested in a single place where we can all hang out.
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I have a subreddit where I've been talking with a listener.
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You are all welcome to come and hang out there as well.
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I entertain the idea of hosting a kick room, but that maxes out at 50 and I'm feeling confident that more than 50 of you want to talk to me and at some point you wouldn't be able to, because if we hit 50, no more.
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I want an open room for anyone to come and go as they want.
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Story time about my last week and weekend.
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I'll be blunt, we have shit luck.
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I love my husband more than life itself, but I have inherited his shit luck in my life.
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It kind of came with him.
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It's winter where we are.
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It's motherfucking cold.
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We own four vehicles, two campers and a boat and a partridge in a pear tree.
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It's not Sanford and Sons like, but just don't open our garage.
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We used to have two motorcycles before COVID hit and had to sell them to survive, which is something that we're good at.
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We learn real quick how to liquidate things when we need to.
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At this point, two of our four vehicles run.
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Neither until yesterday had very good heat, and one didn't have heat at all.
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Like I said, my subbie is with his dad for a few days.
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His bright idea was to drive the one with no heat over two hours away at temps at least negative 10 degrees fahrenheit.
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What is fuck?
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No, also, I'm quite sure the wheel bearing on one of the vehicles the vehicle with no heat is going out.
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The wheel bearing is louder than fuck.
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I'm quite sure it's going to go out.
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I understand his angle.
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I'm quite sure it's going to go out.
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I understand his angle.
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I'm his queen.
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He will take the worst and give me the best.
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However, as cold as it was.
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I did not want him stranded in the middle of nowhere, broke down, so in front of my kids, including my oldest, we had a small battle of wills.
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This rarely happens.
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Even though he was able to fix the heat in the car he wanted to bring, I wasn't letting him take it with that wheel bearing sounding like it was, and it's fucking cold.
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The negative 10 is before the wind chill.
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As a complete side note, I was actually quite turned on by the idea of having heat in the car when it's that cold.
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So we had an exchange, not a high volume exchange, but it was like a tennis match nonetheless for the kids.
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He sensed my will and backed down like a good boy, without too much of a grumble, so off he went.
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Like I said, that happens so very rarely but to be honest, I kind of liked showing my control in front of the kids and I'll just leave it at that.
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Oh wait, I'm not even kidding.
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I have a Google voice number that you can text or leave me a message, or I might even answer if I'm not in the booth or dealing with my children.
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I'll put that in the show notes too.
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This could be fun.
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Just know, there's a good chance that I will use what you send or leave in the voicemail on the show.
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I smell a new segment, for the show Sounds fun.
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I have another podcast, if you weren't aware.
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It's an erotic drama loosely based on real life.
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It's called Control.
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I will put a link in the show notes for this too.
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It's a full-blown production podcast that centers on a couple in an FLR Shocking right.
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We love producing that podcast, but it is an undertaking.
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My hubby is working on the next episode and it's about a third of the way done.
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I'll keep you posted.
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He puts that thing together to sound like a podcast from a big name facility.
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We're pretty proud of it.
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Anyway, you're probably tired of my rambling and I have an audiobook deadline to meet and a killer headache and asshole kids to deal with.
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So I want to say thank you to everyone who listens to my podcast and anybody who maybe noticed my absence on social media this last week slash weekend.
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I don't know what my deal is if there's a shift in the universe.
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Like I said, I just I don't know.
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Maybe it was much needed self-care or just downtime, or I don't know, or just the week's events.
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Everyone, take care of yourselves.
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Be a good human being and catch me next week when I talk about whatever my patron peeps choose.
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Love you all.
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We come in.