March 9, 2025
0119 Female Led Relationships: Embracing Chaos in Your FLR
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Hey there, fabulous listener! In this episode, we dive headfirst into our chaotic yet exhilarating journey of celebrating our New Year's Eve anniversary in the most unconventional way. We also chat about our podcast evolution and share our tales from the trenches of Female-Led Relationships (FLR) coaching. Plus, we've got some juicy stories about living in a lifestyle campground and embracing our creative side.
This episode is a must-listen if you're curious about navigating FLR dynamics, voiceover ventures, and unconventional community living. Whether you're looking for relationship coaching tips, interested in our swinger podcast roots, or fascinated by our experiences at a lifestyle campground, there's something here for everyone. We also touch on our collaboration with the Priory Society and Swingin' Along podcasts, so tune in to discover the beauty of adapting to life's surprises.
References:
1. Priority Society Podcast - Listen here
Questions:
1. What are the challenges and rewards of living in a lifestyle campground?
2. How can I introduce the concept of Female-Led Relationships to my partner?
3. What are some creative ways to celebrate unconventional anniversaries?
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Transcript
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How come I don't get headphones?
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I don't need, I'm just making sure that they work.
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This podcast is intended for mature audiences only If you are not 18 years of age or older.
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there are thousands of other podcasts you can listen to, and you can come back and visit us when you are 18.
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This podcast is meant solely for entertainment.
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We are not licensed doctors, lawyers or therapists.
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We simply have a fascination with the lifestyle and I'd love to share it with you and get your thoughts and opinions.
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Well, we're in a super secret location doing a review of 2020.
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Glad it's over, but first let's address some housekeeping issues.
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Oh, hey, my subbies here, whoop, whoop.
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I want to give a big shout out to all my twitter and tiktok subs oh, subs I like that word, but I digress links to all of those in the description my key holding service that I'm offering and everyone should join because it's fun.
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I have a contract.
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It's based on safety, fun and a secure way to explore your chastity fantasy.
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Hit me up if you have questions.
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Last but not least, I have had some interest in coaching.
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Let me explain.
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If you are interested in the FLR, or female led relationship, dynamic in your relationship and would like some help on how to present it or navigate your way through it, I can guide you on how to present it because, let me tell you, I was completely in the dark to all of this when I started this lifestyle and can maybe give you a different perspective on how to present it to your significant other, so that it isn't so overwhelming and scary.
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Correct feedback, because I would be interested in what type of information you would want in a course like that, or suggestions that you have that you think would be helpful in introducing this lifestyle to your significant other, or if you're already in it and just want some guidance on some bumpy areas you're encountering, which is exciting, because I love helping people, obviously, that's why this podcast exists, correct?
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So hit me up Contact information below Okay, so I just want to address that we were supposed to do this live.
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Oh, sorry, guys, guys, and the plans changed, and that's subject to happen when it comes to us yeah, the whole kids and mom in the house thing sometimes throws us for a loop and for the most part my friends are all vanilla right so we have to kind of be super sneaky about it right and then, in case you all didn't know, my subbie and I got married on new year's eve, which then led to an impromptu anniversary party along with the new year's party right so the guests of honor maybe had a little bit of obligation to be present.
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Right, we had planned on recording live at a hotel New Year's Eve and then we were tipped off that there was a surprise anniversary party that we probably should have been at New Year's Eve.
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So we scrapped the hotel plans and we were going to try to sneak in the live New Year's Eve.
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So we scrapped the hotel plans and we were going to try to sneak in the live New Year's Eve, but one thing led to another and that ship sailed, yeah.
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So then we were going to try to do it last night.
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Well, New Year's Day.
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Right.
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So if you're hearing this whenever, it would have been New Year's day evening, and again, one thing led to another and it just didn't that ship sailed so we're on the third ship now and it's not live, but we're getting some video for you and hopefully you enjoy it right.
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So what I'm thinking is, as I'm sitting here, because he's constantly thinking constantly, so I'm thinking that we could make this all nice and pretty looking and put it on your YouTube channel that might work too, yeah so we'll put it up and we'll leave it up for like a month or so, and if it gains traction, that's cool, if not, we'll take it down.
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I I don't know.
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We'll see how.
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I'm just thinking on my feet yep, and I mean I'm not opposed to the live option.
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It's kind of fun.
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Yeah, we might actually Plus, I love having my subby here.
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We may hit it up for another topic and do it live on Twitter, because it looks like from the poll that I did on Twitter, people would like to see.
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It was like 95 or something like that, wasn't it?
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And to the 5% that don't want to see what the hell I'm not really.
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I don't understand.
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I Something like that, wasn't it?
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And to the 5% that don't want to see what the hell, I'm not really.
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I don't understand, I'm kind of hurt, that's okay.
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Just kidding, I'm not for everyone, and that's okay, correct.
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So what is this episode going to be like?
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Episode 19 is a look at 2020 in review and kind of rewinding how all of this began.
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So I don't know how far back we should go.
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We actually most of this and for you listening, I'm like moving my hand back and forth between the mics and all our equipment set up.
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This was actually bought a couple years ago.
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We were going to do like a swingers podcast thing and we started out and we actually gained a couple of good friends in the swinger podcast community the Priority Society folks.
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Fucking amazing.
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Please, if you haven't listened to that podcast.
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Go listen to that podcast.
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Do it.
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It's fucking amazing.
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It is.
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And Chris and Karen from Swingin' Along have been super cool to us Very down to earth.
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Yeah, very Genuine, friendly yes.
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Genuine people, yeah, very genuine friendly.
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Yes, genuine people both.
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so those two podcasts absolutely go check them out because they're so much better than ours, but we'll get there we'll get there, um.
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So, anyways, we're going to do our own and and that just kind of petered out.
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Um, and most of this, this stuff was all packed in a suitcase, I think yeah, been a year and a half or so.
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I spent a lot of time in a suitcase.
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Yeah, Enter COVID In what March?
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March.
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Yeah, we were Texas.
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I think Right.
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So yeah, we were visiting Texas, yeah, and, and that whole toilet paper thing happened on our way back, which was kind of surreal.
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Yeah, it's crazy.
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We did a road trip there and back.
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With the kids Right.
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It was a family trip.
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So we get back and they talk about okay, we're going to close school for one more day to figure things out, and then it was okay, we're going to extend it to the end of the week to figure things out.
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And then the kids never went back, yeah.
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And then in the meantime I get a phone call from my work my main work source at the time saying we're pretty much done until further notice.
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Enter panic, because that's pretty much our source of income for now.
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Um, because that's pretty much our source of income for now.
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Um, fast forward, well, not fast forward.
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I guess that following week and for like the next couple of months, we did just incredible deep dives into voiceover work Well, yeah.
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How can we earn money without leaving the house?
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Yeah, you know.
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And then that's all online stuff and I got to thinking, when we have the podcast equipment, and I actually had run across a blog about a nice lady who reads books for Audible in her closet and I thought, well, we have a closet.
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And the booth was boring.
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Correct, so we should post pictures of it somewhere or something.
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It's kind of a cool little booth.
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It is.
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We're the people under the stairs.
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Correct Literally.
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Exactly so put the booth together, got on Fiverr and ACX, audible and started doing some work, very cheap work, not paying bills work, but I mean you got to start somewhere.
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So we've been on fiber since then.
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And ACX although ACX has been kind of quiet.
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We have a lot of irons in the fire.
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It can get quite overwhelming.
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A lot of fucking irons in the fire.
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Real get quite overwhelming irons in the fire.
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Real sorry that might be part of the yeah so.
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But I mean, you know we're, we're doing what we can we're chugging along and we're real glad you guys are hanging out with us, right so um.
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We also are residents at a, we'll just say, lifestyle campground clothing, clothing optional.
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Clothing, optional lifestyle.
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There's just a ton of mix of people there.
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They're all fantastic, there's not a ton of people there there's just a big mix of people.
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Yep that's a good way to describe it, and we got to talking over the summer about revisiting the podcast situation and what would that look like and what would be our niche, what would kind of set us apart or set?
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her apart.
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It's all about me because it is all about her as it should be um.
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What would, what would, what could we do?
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That was unique and we started talking about the FLR situation.
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Um that we still very much are newbies in well, well, and I think my biggest thing, especially with the podcast, is I just remember the emotions and the things that I went through when you introduced all of this information to me.
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Right, I was fucking mind blown Like, seriously small town brain.
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That's what I had, and I'm not judging all small towns by any means, my town specifically.
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Very simple, this type of thing is more than likely unacceptable for the most part.
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So I just remember the emotions that I went through when you were introduced.
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Obviously I was very curious but who the hell do I talk to about it?
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I don't really have anybody to talk to about it.
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I don't know if anybody can hear that, but our super secret location has dogs.
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Sorry about it.
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It is what it is.
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Here we are.
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However, I wanted to present something to people that if you have questions, there's somewhere where you can go to find the answers and have somebody that is non-judgmental.
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Because I am the last person to judge anyone and I am fascinated by what makes people tick and what turns people on.
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I just find it interesting.
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Not everything is for me, the things I do probably aren't for everybody out there, but it's nice to have somebody where you can just hash out your questions and not feel like you're being judged for something that maybe turns you on.
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Right, right.
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So we started figuring out how that would look and how we would put something like that together, reached out to, um, some other sellers on fiverr to get some artwork put together and, man, we did what.
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We reached out to three different people, I think, and that was really hard to choose which one to take yeah, they did fantastic work and ridiculous and it's very reasonable.
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I would suggest, or I would recommend, fiverr for a lot of things.
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Yep absolutely.
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It's real hard on the erotic standpoint because they say they don't support it.
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But they kind of do in back doorway, no pun intended.
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Yeah, so it's kind of like a don't ask, don't tell, right, that's what it feels like anyways.
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Yeah, until something pops up where somebody maybe crosses a line that they feel is too much, and then all of a sudden you're tagged, they're tagged, they're removed, your gigs are getting taken down and and this has all been learning but if you're looking for artwork, for something, or I mean, it's a fantastic platform for all that stuff Um very reasonably cheap, reasonably priced reasonably priced.
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Um, very reasonably cheap and reasonably priced.
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Reasonably priced, yeah.
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Sometimes, though, you get what you pay for, true?
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So, um, from our experience, I would recommend like doing a deep dive on it's like we're doing a commercial for fiber.
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We're not sponsored and no, they're side note yeah, um, if you're, if you are going to do anything, if you are going to do anything, if you're going to do anything on Fiverr, I recommend doing a deep dive on their profile, meaning look at all of their examples, look through their feedback, all that stuff.
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Yes, Um, it's like everything I say in here do your own research, Right right, right right.
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So, yeah, we're very fortunate in in what we've gotten so far for um background music for things, artwork for things.
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My subbie is also a fantastic writer and he dabbles with the music a little bit and does very well.
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So I'm lucky on that aspect because he knows how this whole podcast music production goes, and the only thing that sucks is there's just not enough hours in the day, with him doing his full time job and then having to help me with this as I learn.
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Enter control.
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Yes.
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Fuck, oh god, I fucking love doing control.
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I love it.
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It's so much fun to do.
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Controls are other podcasts.
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By the way, right Control is a erotic drama loosely based on real events right, so I love doing them um, I love putting things together.
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It's, it's an undertaking yeah, for sure and this episode of control coming up is it.
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It's a big one, yeah, big.
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It's over a half hour isn't it?
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I think so.
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Almost 45, something like that.
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It's a great.
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It's huge.
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It's pretty good.
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It's a great one.
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Yeah, so that is in the pipeline.
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If any of you are Control fans, it is coming and I sincerely apologize for not getting stuff out.
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There's a lot of work that goes into it, because we want to give you quality material.
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Yes, we don't want to put shit out there, right?
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I don't want to slap something together because if that was the case, you know we'd have five or six control episodes out, but they wouldn't be.
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I want people listening with their earbuds to actually be in the story.
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Yeah, you know, to hear the sounds, to feel the things actually be in the story.
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Yeah, you know, to hear the sounds to feel the things um, I just like putting I felt the things reading.
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This next one she did, by the way, was fucking different things.
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It was so good okay, so that brings us up pretty much to now and, um, because I do all the behind the mic stuff and the production stuff, I keep an eye on numbers and stats and all that kind of stuff and holy shit.
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You guys fucking rock, by the way.
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Yeah, we had no idea that that many people would be.
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It blows my mind that there's that many people out there that want to hear what I have to say and I fucking appreciate each and every one of you Seriously want to hear what.
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I have to say, and I fucking appreciate each and every one of you seriously and I think you were telling me today about a message you got on twitter we were put on or your podcast was on.
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What is it was a key holding no it was some mansion oh, uh, please pause so somebody had put us, mentioned us in a post on chastity mansion.
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That's what it was right.
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So there was a pretty major spike, like on Wednesday and Thursday like five and 600.
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Well, Wednesday was something like 900.
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Holy fuck you guys yeah.
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You're awesome.
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So, um, yeah, that was really cool to see.
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And now we know why that happened, because it was out of nowhere of like.
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You know, we're hovering at whatever number it is each day and it's still blown away by that number.
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Absolutely.
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And then Wednesday it just went through the fucking roof and wow yeah, so welcome Chastity Mansion people.
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And thanks for coming.
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Yeah, I mean thanks, hopefully over and over.
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Yes, I mean, that's my preference.
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Right, so that's where we are now, basically, we're sitting at a secret location.
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Trying to make up for the fact that we didn't do a live.
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We'll provide some video.
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Right.
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Just want you to know how much we appreciate all of you.
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That's where we are.
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Yeah, this is really fun to do, I love having him here.
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It's so much fun to talk about things with him here, right Love it.
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So what are our plans for?
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2021 and beyond To be fucking awesome.
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Well, that's a given, wow.
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So you talked about the possibility of an FLR Coaching, coaching and or course of some sort.
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Figuring out how to get a price structure for that right and what it would include what it would entail and that's probably going to take a little bit more time because, again, we don't want to just slap something together and throw it out there like we want it to be useful, like useful to people well, and I would love to hear some feedback, absolutely from people who have some ideas like if this is something you're tiptoeing into.
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What would you like to know?
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what would you?
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Like to hear about like beyond what we do weekly right you know what we, what we put together weekly, what she amazingly does weekly um.
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We hope that that's of value too, and like there's no price, obviously, for a podcast, that's just something we enjoy doing I do together.
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I like the sound of my own voice but maybe a little um, a deeper dive into things or or topic specific kind of things or I guess I don't know.
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I have gotten a couple messages on only fans, which I sincerely appreciate, um, especially from caged for pegging, which is the one that we did on pegging last week, and we are also going to touch back on that a little bit now that my subbie is here, um, but I have gotten some ideas from people on things that they would like to hear about.
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Um, I think we could probably do an episode on ball torture.
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That would be quite fun, um, but I love hearing ideas of things you guys want to hear about.
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Again, it's just my perspective and my opinion, or things that we practice in our lifestyle and or in our relationship.
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If there's things that interest you or just questions that you have that you'd like me to answer, I would love to hear about it.
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And because, like you say, you know everybody's different.
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There are so many different angles to things and situations for things and perspectives of things or whatever that we don't have or we haven't come across or whatever.
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And that's where having a little community of people, listeners, whatever, having people talking is great because you really get all the different perspectives, and Talking is great because you really get all the different perspectives and deep dives or intricate little you know things to think about or whatever, and it's good to try to cover all of that and I again, I'm new to a lot.
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I mean, I've been doing, we've been practicing the lifestyle we practice for a few years now, but I love learning new things from you all.
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I mean, I want to hear about what makes you tick.
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I am fascinated by that and it also prompts me to do my own research and have talking points on here.
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I just love it.
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It's I don't know, it's just so interesting to me because it's like there's this whole big world that I didn't even know existed until I met him.
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This whole big world that I didn't even know existed until I met him.
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So I want to learn more.
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I love learning.
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To be fair, when she met me, all I basically knew was, like, the urges that I had, but also, just, you know, the porn site version of some of this stuff and maybe some blog post versions of this.
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Like, the more that we've grown, the more I've wrapped my head around what my role is in the relationship.
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Well, and from the research that I've done too.
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I mean, I have found some blog posts and things like that that have been helpful.
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On the emotional aspect.
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I think initially when this gets introduced to people, they automatically think about the physical aspect and the play aspect of it, but people never really look at the fact that I have never trusted a man that I've been with more than I trust him.
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I have never been in a more healthy relationship, in my opinion, in my entire life.
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I mean there's so much more to this dynamic than just there being a cage on his cock and me being in control.
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I will say that's my favorite part of our relationship.
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But there's so much more to it, the emotional connection that we have.
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I mean, I've never had a relationship where I am so stimulated by just his touch, like it's constantly just being it's almost like a 24 seven edging.
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I mean, it's another topic I would like to talk about is edging, and prostate massage.
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If anybody has any tips on that, it is literally um foreplay 24 seven.
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Yeah, it's fantastic it really is, and this relationship isn't like any better or worse than a vanilla relationship.
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It's just, it's our thing and it works for us, and maybe it works for you, or maybe an aspect of it works for you Right.
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You customize it to what works for you.
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That's what's nice about it, yeah.
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There is no set in stone right or wrong, other than consent and a safe word.
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Right and trust.
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And trust.
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And communication.
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Fine, you win.
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There's more, there's one upper.
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